The Truth About Survivors
“I haven’t met a lady here who isn’t kind.”

This was a comment made by a sweet soul sister I met on Sunday morning, at the close of the Called to Peace Ministries He Makes All Things New Retreat.

Such profound truth.

For years, even decades, we were told that we were the problem.

We were mistreated, dishonored, abused, shamed and blamed.

But, the truth is that abusers choose victims because of their strengths, not their weaknesses.

Many of are servers.

Helpers.

Rescuers.

Healers.

Nurturers.

We are forgiving, empathetic, long-suffering, self-sacrificing, optimistic, compassionate, creative and resourceful.

Always hoping and waiting and praying.

Almost to the point of death.

I am so thankful for TRUTH.

TRUTH sets us FREE.

We are beloved.

Cherished.

Honored.

Chosen.

Wanted.

Anointed.

Equipped.

Empowered.

Enabled.

We are a mighty army, rising up.

We’ve come through the fire and we will keep carrying back buckets for those who are still engulfed in the flames.

If you are a woman who is rebuilding your life after abuse, join us on Facebook at Held & Healed. Our community is growing and we are getting ready to start a book club and planning our first annual retreat. 

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